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You've been out of the marriage for a month and you've been introduced to the hottest guy or gal you've seen in a long long time. Your heart skips a beat just thinkin' about it. Ok, you're gonna hate me for this, but GO SLOW. Don't make any big decisions about your life (unless absolutely necessary) for at least six months out of the marriage.
It's an exciting time, and who wouldn't want to be a Phoenix and rise from the ashes so quickly? Everyone would, but many have the tales to tell...healing takes time. Enjoy one another's company, go out, have fun. Feel young again, you deserve the best. Just remember....six months.
|Jennifer Mathes, Ph.D.|