The death of a marriage

When you are going through a divorce it is the death of a marriage. There is a grieving process. If you are the person who left then the grieving process has been completed. You have gone through the stages; denial, anger, bargaining, and acceptance. If you are the person who has been left it has just begun. Allow yourself to experience the process, all of the stages. You will find that often a therapist is better at assisting you then a friend. A death is a death and it takes time to heal, but the important issue is that you will heal.