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Allow the children to take their toys, clothing, etc. with them, if they wish, as they go back and forth between their parent's homes. Do not tell the children something must stay at your home because you paid for it.
I don't agree with this - I had to start completely over with absolutely nothing for me or my children in order to get away from their father. He has them, the house, and their stuff and when they are with me, I have been able to slowly accumulate things for our new home - sending stuff back to their dads will deplete the little bit I have for them at my apartment....maybe down the road this would be a possibility but not at this point.